{"id":16415,"date":"2026-05-23T11:01:50","date_gmt":"2026-05-23T11:01:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tltp.ee\/?p=16415"},"modified":"2026-05-23T14:55:14","modified_gmt":"2026-05-23T14:55:14","slug":"ma-ei-olnud-kunagi-pariselt-elanud","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tltp.ee\/en\/ma-ei-olnud-kunagi-pariselt-elanud\/","title":{"rendered":"I Had Never Truly Lived"},"content":{"rendered":"
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I Had Never
Truly Lived<\/h1>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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Today, I wasn\u2019t planning to write a blog post.<\/p>

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But I\u2019m noticing more and more that I no longer want to live only according to plans.\u00a0I want to learn to listen to what is truly alive and active in the present moment.<\/span><\/p>

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Is it easy?
No.<\/p>

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Is it comfortable?
Sometimes. Sometimes not.<\/p>

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Today, this text comes through vulnerability.
Sadness.
Longing.<\/p>

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And interestingly, this longing is not only connected to people or situations from the past.<\/p>

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Rather it is connected to the feelings that have remained alive inside my body.<\/p>

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Because people can leave.\u00a0<\/p>

Moments can pass.\u00a0<\/p>

But the body remembers.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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Today I\u2019m listening to Soft Positive Vibes\u2019 song \u201cThis is my Life\u201d<\/em><\/a> and\u00a0<\/p>

I\u2019m reminded of something very simple \u2014\u00a0<\/p>

this moment here \u2014 where I am now, writing these words \u2014\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

is the only reality that truly exists.<\/span><\/p>

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It may sound clich\u00e9.<\/p>

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And yet, the more I observe my life, the more I understand\u00a0<\/p>

that there is a deeper truth within it.<\/p>

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My life is not created only through \u201cbig\u201d events.<\/p>

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It is created through repeated choices.
Thoughts.
Patterns.<\/p>

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And over time, those patterns begin weaving\u00a0<\/p>

mida ma nimetan \u201cminu eluks\u201d.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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What moved me to write today\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>

was one vulnerable encounter.<\/span><\/h3>
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A conversation with a woman trying to understand\u00a0<\/p>

why she has not been able to leave a relationship that has lasted for decades.\u00a0<\/p>

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Three children.\u00a0<\/p>

A shared life.\u00a0<\/p>

Safety.\u00a0<\/p>

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And at the same time, a relationship that had become completely empty sexually.<\/p>

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Listening to her, I noticed something important once again.<\/p>

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Often, the most important thing is not\u00a0<\/p>

how dramatic another person\u2019s story is.<\/p>

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What matters more is what it touches within me.<\/p>

What it reminds me of.
What it reveals.<\/p>

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And the most important question is always:
what do I do with that realization?<\/p>

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Because insight without change remains only a thought.<\/p>

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I learned this through pain.<\/p>

Through experience.<\/p>

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Through how easy it has been for me to abandon myself and call it\u00a0<\/p>

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\u201cpatience,\u201d\u00a0<\/p>

\u201cbeing reasonable\u201d or\u00a0<\/p>

\u201cstability.\u201d<\/p>

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But underneath it, there was often just fear.<\/p>

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Fear of choosing something new.
Fear of stepping into the unknown.
Fear of being truly seen.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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That moment still
lives in my body memory
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My body remembers very clearly a moment from 2022.<\/p>

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A moment when I consciously chose to do something<\/p>

I had avoided my entire life.<\/p>

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I remember the trembling in my body.
I remember the confusion.
I remember the fear.<\/p>

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And at the same time, I knew with absolute clarity:
\u201c\u2026if I want my life to change, <\/em>I have to be the one <\/em><\/p>

who chooses differently\u2026\u201d<\/em><\/p>

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I was tired of living a life that looked fine on the outside while feeling lifeless within.<\/strong><\/h6><\/blockquote>

And yet, choosing aliveness at that moment felt<\/p>

almost unbearably terrifying.<\/p>

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That moment felt endless.<\/p>

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Even though in reality it probably lasted only a few minutes.<\/p>

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I was physically, emotionally, and spiritually completely naked.<\/p>

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And then, for the first time in my life, I said out loud:<\/p>

\u201cI have never experienced an orgasm with a man.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>

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At that point, I was 45 years old.
And the mother of a young daughter.<\/p>

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What followed after that moment<\/p>

changed the course of my life.<\/p>

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This is not an exaggeration.<\/p>

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And it was not about what the other person \u201cdid.\u201d<\/p>

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It was about what was present in that space.<\/p>

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Presence.
Non-force.
Permission.<\/p>

Not fixing.
Not pushing.
Not teaching.<\/p>

Just presence.<\/p>

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And within that wordless presence was something<\/p>

my body had never experienced before.<\/p>

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For the first time, I felt that I was not wrong.<\/p>

That my awkwardness was not wrong.
My fear was not wrong.
My sexuality was not wrong.<\/p>

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And maybe it was there that something I now call \"healing\", truly began to emerge within me.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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Today, I believe more and more <\/p>\n

that people do not always need more information. <\/span><\/p>\n


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More analysis. <\/p>\n

More words.<\/p>\n


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We need real experiences in spaces<\/p>\n

where our nervous system can experience safety, <\/p>\n

et me oleme turvalised ka siis, <\/p>\n

kui me oleme haavatavad.<\/p>\n


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Spaces where we do not need to constantly protect ourselves.<\/p>\n

Ruumi, kus me ei tunne, et peame olema<\/p>\n

 \u201c\u00f5igemad\u201d, <\/p>\n

\u201cmore correct\u201d or <\/p>\n

\u201cmore healed.\u201d<\/p>\n


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Just human beings.
Present.<\/p>\n


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And this is where intimacy truly begins.<\/p>\n


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Not in how we touch another person.<\/p>\n

But in whether we dare to remain present within ourselves.<\/p>


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\u201cBreathe closer \u2014 together<\/a><\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

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